“Mom, Dad....I’m bored.”
Makes you feel put on
the spot, right? You might even feel like you`re a bad parent. Most of
us pressured to solve this "problem" right away.
We usually respond to our kids’ boredom by providing
technological entertainment or structured activities. But that`s
Children need to encounter and engage with the raw stuff
that life is made of: unstructured time.
Why is unstructured time so important for your child`s healthy development?
One of our biggest challenges as adults, and even as teenagers, is learning to manage our time well. So it`s essential for children to start encountering the experience of deciding for themselves how to use periods of unstructured time.
Maybe even more important, unstructured time gives children the opportunity to explore their inner and outer worlds, which is how they discover who they are. It`s the beginning of creativity; how they learn to engage with themselves and the world, to imagine and invent and create.
So the best response to "I`m bored," is:
Kathleen Notes: Bored kids are kids who become creative, self determined problem solvers....great stuff!
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